Ben and Alyssa’s story began in college. Ben was a proud member of Pi Kappa Phi, and Alyssa was part of Alpha Chi Omega. Back then, they knew of each other, but it wasn’t until after graduation that their paths truly crossed again.

Alyssa remembers thinking Ben was quiet but kind, while Ben thought Alyssa’s bright energy could light up any room. Years later, when they reconnected through mutual friends at the house they now call “Mirasol,” something just clicked. One night out with friends, everyone ordered a round of Irish Car Bombs. When Alyssa stepped away for a moment, everyone took their drink — everyone except Ben. He waited for her so they could take it together. That small, thoughtful moment was the spark that changed everything. A month later, Alyssa expressed interest in dating to Ben, and from that moment on, they were inseparable.

Ben planned their first date perfectly, he picked Alyssa up from her grandparents’ house with flowers in hand and took her to Saddle Ranch, followed by Dave & Buster’s. He was so nervous that he even made a playlist called “Vibes” to seem cool (it worked!).

Five years later, their story has been filled with laughter, travel, and endless memories. Together, they’ve explored cities across the U.S. from New York to Seattle, Dallas to Catalina and adventured around the world to places like Barcelona, Paris, Amsterdam, London, Costa Rica, and Mexico City. They’ve also overcome their fair share of “couple challenges”, building IKEA furniture, dealing with hangry moods, and even missing a flight and taking an overnight ferry to Ibiza (there’s always a story!).

If their relationship could be summed up in three words, it would be communication, playful, and lovey-dovey. Ben adores Alyssa’s quirky side, and Alyssa loves Ben’s comedic charm and of course, his top-tier planning skills.

Speaking of planning, Ben outdid himself when he proposed on September 20, 2025. With the help of their “committee” of friends, he orchestrated an elaborate surprise. Alyssa thought she was attending a makeup influencer event, but instead, she found herself walking down to a beach in Corona Del Mar lined with 100 white roses and Ben waiting with a ring. After saying yes, she was whisked away to yet another surprise an engagement party at their home surrounded by their friends, family, and their beloved husky, Blue.

Ben and Alyssa love spending their days traveling, trying new foods, watching movies, going to Disney, attending sporting events, and playing with Blue, the playful Siberian Husky they adopted in August 2025. They’re active, adventurous, and love running 5Ks, cycling, and taking workout classes together. As Geminis, they find balance in their shared spontaneity and open communication, sometimes quiet, sometimes loud, but always perfectly in sync.

Their story came full circle when Ben asked Alyssa to be his girlfriend on the beaches of Tulum, Mexico — and it’s only fitting that they’ll say “I do” with their toes in the sand, surrounded by the people they love most.

They hope their guests feel like they’re on vacation, soaking in the sun, the joy, and the love, while sharing in an intimate moment that celebrates not just their wedding, but the incredible journey that brought them here.